Whatever you’re holding onto… mentally, emotionally, physically or vibrationally, that doesn’t serve you anymore, LET IT GO.
Old stories, old events, old occurrences that you witnessed, participated in or maybe, actually, only heard about. Let that go, too.
If it isn’t 100% relevant in making your life better today, let it go.
So, that means if someone you know did something they probably weren’t proud of 11 years ago, LET THAT SHIT GO.
They don’t want to hear about it. And it has nothing to do with you. That was on THEM back then, but when you bring it up today, it’s on YOU. Let it go.
The only thing you need to concern yourself with, is yourself. You deal with you. If you make it about someone else, that’s YOUR problem. Let it go.
If it isn’t going to make the situation better, let it go.
We’ve all done things we aren’t proud of. And literally the fact that we’re not proud of them is what allows us to learn what we needed to learn, and now we get to move on. So let’s all move on.
There is NOTHING wrong with making mistakes, even making the same mistake multiple times. These things happen and no one is perfect. Let it go.
But, if you need to point out other people’s mistakes while completely ignoring your own, YOU have a problem. You can let that go, too!
When you find yourself dwelling on something someone else has done, stop thinking for a moment and feel what you feel, physically in your body.
Where is it? Stomach, chest, throat, neck, shoulders, etc…
What is the major emotion you’re feeling? Anger, resentment, exhaustion, etc.
Have you ever done anything wrong?
What did you do wrong?
Did you correct it immediately after the first event? No? Why? You’re human?
OH! Good to know.
Now, guess what… we’re all human. Let it go.
It’s So Hard To Let Go
I know, I know. Bless us everyone.
The reason we have such a hard time MENTALLY letting go of what no longer serves us, is that we’ve got enough of that energy stored in our physical body to power a battleship.
So, even if it FEELS big and difficult to let go of, it doesn’t have to be.
It feels like it will be hard and painful.
It feels like it will hurt and be scary.
You know what, it can be uncomfortable. But, that’s only temporary and you’ve been uncomfortable for a long time. What’s a few more minutes?
Mental / Emotional Detox
When we think of detoxing, folks probably think first of detoxifying their bodies, and yes, that is vitally important. But even more important than detoxing our bodies is detoxing our mind and emotions.
I’m always interested in the quickest and easiest solutions. I’ve done long, drawn out and complicated. I’m all in for peace and ease these days.
And when you learn to move the upset you feel physically through your body, you’ll find you’re less emotional, more confident and less easy to upset. It’s a beautiful thing!
I’m great at helping folks mentally and emotionally detoxify their lives.
Reach out for support and more ease in letting things go.
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The next time you’re having a conversation with someone in your own head, listen to yourself.
What are you mad about? What is the complaint? What did they do? What didn’t they do? What should they have done?
What are the general theme of these thoughts? Make a note of this, the story is less important.
Is it a recurring theme in your life?
Do these complaints revolve around the same type of situation? You get no respect, no one loves you, you’re always left holding the bag, you have to handle it, etc…
Someone not doing what they’re supposed to do? Someone not holding up their end of the bargain?
Are you not doing what you’re supposed to do? Are you not holding up your end of the bargain or relationship?
Now, where do you feel the sensation those questions, and the emotions they bring up, physically in your body?
I was cleaning up from some demo work we’re doing in the back yard. We’re taking down the roof of our shed that’s plywood, tar paper and 2 layers of shingles. And more nails than you can shake a stick at.
When we started I intended to catch as many nails as I could and be able to easily pick up any we might have missed.
As I was doing more clean up this morning sweeping and picking up trash, my eye was quickly and easily drawn to several nails in obscure areas.
It immediately caused me to think of WHY it happened so easily and what came to me was this…
My intention to be in peace and harmony (not stepping on a nail) and my intention for others enjoying my space to be in peace and harmony (also not stepping on a nail) caused me to vibrate at a frequency that, along with my participation in the expectation and conscious awareness of what I’m looking for, allowed my eyes to SEE what I was looking for. In this instance, rogue nails.
So, there can always be a reason and need to be focused in a way that’s opening the space for and empowering peace and harmony (pre-emptively clearing the nails), rather than projecting fear, defense and protection (creating the problem and then scaring folks into your solutions… look up The Hegelian Dialectic).
That would be like purposefully NOT picking up the nails and then telling someone walking barefoot in my yard, “Watch out! You’ll probably step on a rusty old nail and get tetanus for SURE!! Have fun!”
Or to bring it straight home… It’s exactly like our news media not reminding folks how to support their own immunity and providing easy steps to take that would head off illness immediately. But instead, what the news media and the pamphlet from the covid test (the PCR test was created without a sample of the actual covid virus, so it was never a true representation of who had what) DID say, was to go home and take cold medicine until you can’t breathe, then go to the Emergency Room. GREAT IDEA! Said NO ONE. EVER. WTF?
Fake test + false data + fear pushed by the media = covid.
Does this feel at all familiar to anyone? Anyone? Bueller?
Can you feel the difference in those vibrations? Conscious preparation for peace and harmony or fear pushed for reasons of control.
Once you become aware, you can easily, with no fight or struggle, choose whichever you like.
When I think of what we’re seeing these days with the unconstitutional push to vaccinate everyone, even against a person’s free will, for a virus that has a 99% survivability rate, I see clearly the desperate grasp for control. I’ll say it again for those of you in the cheap seats… this virus has a 99%+ survival rate. That’s what science says.
Our military, law enforcement and healthcare workers being our first line of national defense should be 100% in control of their own health care decisions. This will not stand. Last time I checked we still lived in the United States of America.
The Simple Solution
So, how do we get around this crap? Move every bit of energy you have around every subject that comes up.
What are the conversations you keep having in your head? Who keeps doing what to you?
Be honest with yourself about what keeps you up at night. Acknowledge it in the day time. Say it out loud to yourself. Bring it into the light. Breathe deeply, be willing to soften around the worrisome thoughts or ideas and let them go. Solutions abound and readily present themselves when we shine light into those dark places.
Find the physical place in your body that feels the most uncomfortable when you’re thinking about whatever upsets you. Now, stop thinking and just be with that sensation in your body. Relax and breathe. Let the feeling pass. Support yourself mentally. Bless my heart. This too shall pass. I love you so much.
Do this every time you have an uncomfortable thought or feeling. Stop thinking. Put your brain aside and tell it you’ll think about it in a minute. Feel what you feel without thinking about why. Be your own best friend and kindest cheerleader. Speak to yourself as you’d have your child speak to themselves.
Are you getting the picture here? How’s it working for you?
If it’s not, get support. I’m here to help. Email me to schedule a session.
It’s very simple. But in the beginning it can be less than easy.
But, it CAN be easy and it will get easier with practice.
So, listen to yourself.
What are you thinking?
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Everybody has problems. Every single person in this world has problems. So I thought I’d share some of my struggles with you.
Oh, hey hey, you say. I thought you were a Conscious Creator? It’s SIMPLE, you say! Create your own reality, you say!
How can someone have struggles if they’re so good at creating their own reality?
Welcome To Humanity!
Being a conscious creator doesn’t mean that you’ll never have another struggle ever again.
It does mean, however, that any struggle you face, you’ll see as a catalyst for your own growth. You won’t be totally upset by anything and it will give you a higher level of conscious awareness as to which direction you should go next to move yourself closer to what you want.
Some folks may think I don’t have any troubles, because I don’t talk about them. I really only complain about petty and non-meaningful things, quickly, and often, in jest.
In all honesty, we’re human, we’ve all got “problems”.
But, if I am really, REALLY upset or worried about something, NO ONE will EVER know.
It’s one of my tricks as a Conscious Creator to move as quickly as I can through difficulties, without including a bunch of folks in a storyline I’d rather not play out.
I’m not saying to not talk things through. What I am saying is be careful who you take into your confidence. Only share with folks that will allow you to move quickly through the hard parts to come to the best decision you can for yourself and your family.
I say Bless my heart all the time. There are any number of scenarios that can play out during a day that might frustrate or irritate me. My answer to that is “Bless my heart!”. All day every day. This is what life is about. Moving quickly through the difficult bits. Acknowledging the minutiae and being kind to yourself makes it much easier to get through.
I promise to do better 20 times a day. Though I want to do my best every time, sometimes, I fall short. But, I don’t give myself a hard time. I breathe through, shake it off and tell myself, “I’ll do better next time” and often times do. 🙂
I have aches and pains that I have to stop my mind from making into a thing. My mind can be every bit as unruly as the next person. I just don’t give it any leeway. I understand we are vibrational beings living in a vibrational universe and I tell myself as much when my mind tries to convince me it “could” be something else.
I feel frustrated, irritated and overwhelmed sometimes. My life isn’t perfect. I don’t have everything I want. Many things can seem difficult for me. So, I don’t try to think about, worry over or fix any of them. I tell myself it’s all Energy and it’s all moving and it always eventually does. I don’t rush myself or make it a big deal when it takes longer than I’d like.
Ioften wish I could use my hands to change things, which is supremely frustrating because I know the most powerful and easiest way to make real and lasting change is by moving the energy. But, that doesn’t preclude me from thinking “I’ve got to DO something!” on a fairly regular basis.
I feel uncomfortable when moving through the energy of… not wanting something because it’s someone else’s idea, even though it may be a good idea. Oh my gosh. This is so childish. Yet, here I find myself sometimes.
I’m sure I could come up with plenty more, but we’ll leave it here for now.
This Is All Human Nature
Move through the energy of all negative upset by allowing yourself to feel what the emotion feels like physically in your body, without telling yourself a bunch of unhelpful stories about what those feelings mean and EVERYTHING changes. Whew. Yes, please and thank you!
I’m working on a Free Course to introduce these ideas and concepts on my newsletter if you’d like to jump in and be part of helping me create that.
I need your feedback. I want your feedback. I’m here to help and I want to know what you need.
Be so easy about things. Don’t make them a big deal. Relax more about it and let unsettled feelings pass before you take any action.
Any amount of effort you give to this endeavor will yield results. And small wins gather much momentum when you focus on them.
Here’s to it! Much Love, Crystal
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I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately. I’ve been PRAYING a lot lately.
I hold the vision that each of us, in our own way, to our own higher power, are calling out for Peace and Love in the hearts of ALL during this most difficult time in our Nation’s history.
The way I pray now is much different than how I prayed when I was younger and had less understanding of the world, how it works and what God actually wants from me.
As a child my prayers always started like this…
Now I lay me, down to sleep
I pray the Lord, my soul to keep.
If I should die, before I wake.
I pray the Lord, my soul to take.
I knew instinctively, at a very tender age that I couldn’t ask God for things that I didn’t also ask for other people. So, I added an addendum to my prayer…
Please forgive me of all my sins,
and forgive everyone else in the world of all their sins.
Please help me make it through the night,
and please help everyone else in the world make it through the night.
I remember knowing, even as a small child, that not everyone was going to make it through the night. That when morning came, some people in the world would have passed away and some family would be sad about it. But, I prayed that prayer all the same. The reality of life would not stop me from asking for what I knew to be true and right and good.
I still say that prayer every night when I go to sleep. Same dang way. It always cracks me up and I am infinitely proud of my little small self for KNOWING that I want EVERYONE’S highest good. Whether I know or like them or agree with them or not.
It also has occurred to me that I’ve been praying for years for God to help us through this dark night. Whatever it is, for whomever. This dark night… we will make it through.
I pray or meditate multiple times per day. When I’m irritated, upset, don’t know what to do, etc… I ask for clarity, guidance and support. I sit down and get still. I ask my higher power to be with me and help me make the best decision. This is also when I find the physical sensations of the emotional upset in my body and let it move. It’s a game changer. Everything is always working out.
I’ve added more addendums to my prayers …
Hey man! Walk with me, talk with me. (loving, friendly, familiar)
I want to see what you see.
I want to hear what you hear.
I want to say what you would have me say.
Be in my heart today, God.
Make me an instrument,
Of your Peace.
Of your Joy.
Of your Love.
All in your good time, God, not my time.
YOUR will, not mine.
I am open and available, thy will be done.
In Jesus name, I pray.
SO BE IT AND SO IT IS.
Whatever Works For You
You do you. Find your faith and pray joyful prayers of thanks for the good things you want for yourself and the entire world. Lay in the grass and breathe in Nature, and all the good there is in this world. Take a walk and wave to your neighbors, no matter what sign they have in their yard. Intend to see the world through God’s clear and loving eyes.
Say NO thank you, and turn off any news channel or personality that tries to divide you from ANYONE in your community. We need each other. Life is a team sport. We didn’t come here to agree on everything or to succeed alone. We came here to learn what we can and share it with others.
What I’ve learned and am trying to share is…
LOVE IS and everything else, isn’t. God IS LOVE.
This is all you need to really understand, to let go of the negativity and divisiveness. That mindset and narrative is a mistake, intended confusion. It’s not real.
What’s real is love, connection and community. If the folks you are watching aren’t emulating this you’re watching the wrong stuff.
If YOU are someone that IS projecting something OTHER than LOVE, connection and community, I’d get radically honest and ask myself why.
When people act ugly or say ugly things, it says EVERYTHING about their own state of mind, and nothing about any person or subject they are disparaging.
Energy is running pretty high these days, folks.
Keep breathing and keep looking for ways to calm and soothe the situation.
I’m here to help. I love you so much!! Crystal
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We weren’t born onto this Earth to be perfect or to have perfect lives. How would we grow if things were always perfect? So learning to feel better when things look bad is key to transforming everything.
Two years ago this week Dionne began chemotherapy (along with doing many other natural things). Today she is healthy, so grateful, and happy to FEEL better. Every night when she’s able to turn over in her sleep or gets up to go to the bathroom and walks without pain she feels herself half asleep saying Thank You with every step. She remembers feeling really depressed when she was emotionally worried and physically hurting.
When you’re in pain, emotional or physical, your mind can’t focus positively. So learning how to support yourself in some key ways opens the door for big change with less effort than first thought necessary. The mental and emotional work she did while allowing support from Western medicine was paramount in her moving through her diagnosis with much more ease than many could believe.
You can only THINK as good as you FEEL.
Bless all our hearts.
How to Feel Better Now
I often write about moving the energy physically around emotions and have described the process many times. So I decided a couple days ago to make an audio to share with my newsletter folks and anyone that joins, as a gift. I have just gotten a new computer, as my old one slowly fades out of sight, and was practicing with my new equipment.
I didn’t initially intend to share this one. I didn’t AT ALL intend to share this one. The sound isn’t perfect. I bumped my mic. I didn’t say EXACTLY what I might have wanted to say. Because, duh, it was my first try and I was recording myself. OY. For those that don’t know me, I don’t necessarily like a lot of attention. I don’t like to have my picture taken, to be videoed, or to be recorded, because I sound like a country hick and I’ve been around enough to know how folks judge folks for things like not being perfect. Whoa. Hold on there. Who’s judging whom for not being perfect? That would be me… judging myself. See how this works?
Bless my heart. Bless all of our hearts. We’re not supposed to be perfect. We’re supposed to be as good as we can be, and do the best job we can, everyday, to get up and try again tomorrow. In my estimation, our objective is to see the world as God (The One True Infinite Creator, Universe, Spirit, whatever that means to YOU) sees it. Understanding that everything happens for a reason and we don’t always get to know why.
What others come into this life to experience and grow through is between them and their Higher Power and we have to soothe ourselves, and those around us, with kindness, gentleness, and support.
My parents lost a very wonderful young man yesterday. He worked for them on the ranch and was so kind, helpful, and sweet. I loved so much that they had him, and he had them. He struggled with things they knew about and probably more they had no clue of. The loss of that precious boy is being felt by so many. The idea of people suffering or struggling breaks my heart.
Clarity Through Pain
As I have felt through my own emotions and their corresponding physical sensations… my heart, heavy and aching, for him and his father/family, and my parents and his friends, my solar plexus in a knot. I feel a knot in my throat and find myself holding my breath. Usually during a thought that’s sad or looking at the situation from a very limited human perspective, instead of the way God sees it. Bless our Hearts.
When I notice this, I do this breathing exercise. I’ve talked about it a million times. It’s the thing that makes me feel better every time. It’s the thing that I want to share with as many people as possible so they can see and have the experience themselves of relief. From any emotion, from any sensation, relief. There’s plenty of brain science behind this, but from experience, I know.
When you FEEL better, you can THINK better.
And when you feel better, you can see there is support out there for you and that people love you and that we can get through anything. And with God, there is Grace. So whatever comes, it’ll all be ok.
Sharing My Process to Get You Through a Hard Time
So, I’m sharing it with you. Complete in it’s incompleteness. Perfect in it’s imperfection. My heart pounds now as I type this, thinking of sharing my first try. I grew up believing I should do everything right the first time. Let me just tell you that’s ridiculous. This isn’t the BEST I’ll ever do, but it’s a tool. And a powerful one at that. And tools don’t have to be perfect. They just have to work.
And in this moment I wish that he had had a tool to make him feel better. And the idea that I wouldn’t share something that might help someone because I don’t think it’s perfect is enough to make me share it, ready or not.
No one is perfect. Nothing is perfect. No life is perfect. Sometimes, things look and feel dark and difficult. But, there is always hope. If we can reach for a “just a little better” in difficult moments it will begin to ease. Soothing our body with this exercise will bypass the brain and begin to soften the body. Which will help shift our perspective and bring some relief.
So, do this breathing exercise and feel better. I love you. I want your complete and total health and happiness. Share this with whomever you think might need it, or use it, or share it themselves with someone in need.
Life can be good and YOU CAN FEEL GOOD. No matter what you’re going through and no matter what is happening in your life.
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Let’s look again at what fear actually is. It’s information, really. A self fulfilling prophesy. Absolutely, both.
So, what do we do with this fear? How do we use it to our benefit rather than letting it run our lives in a way that lowers our immune system and keeps us from making the best decisions for ourselves, based on the knowledge of our own hearts, minds and bodies?
The answer is this… pay attention and educate yourself.
Become aware of the motivations of others. Are they trying to set us free or are they trying to controlling us?
Don’t blindly follow anyone off of a cliff. Keep your eyes peeled back and your britches on.
Let’s go through a couple ways fear is perpetuated.
THE GREAT MOTIVATOR EXPOSED
We don’t see the world as ITis, we see the world as WE are.
If we’re happy and well adjusted we’ll see things as such. But, if we lie, cheat and steal, we’ll think and accuse others of lying, cheating and stealing. When we do things wrong, we tend to think and accuse others of doing those same things.
Projection, the mental process by which people attribute to others what is in their own minds… At a social level, racism, sexism, xenophobia, homophobia, and other malignant “othering” mindsets have been attributed at least partly to projection.
If we are accused of doing or BEING something we know we are not, there is nothing to worry about; don’t “buy in” mentally to the accusation. If we know our own heart, and I hope we do, we already know the truth.
Recognize that these are tactics used by people, both intentionally and unintentionally, to make us feel something. Usually, the effort is trying to elicit some lower emotion like guilt, shame, fear, worry or compliance.
So, if it has worked, and we are feeling upset or triggered… relax, breathe and move through the energy physically in our body while supporting ourselves mentally. These can be hurtful and upsetting moments.
Give ourselves the loving support we need to move through it and come to a clearer understanding of what’s actually happening.
Recognize that it’s our job to move our own energy around each upset we face, and notice if we’re projecting our own issues onto people around us.
If we are, no problem! It’s great to become aware of what’s going on and begin doing the work of “seeing about our own self”.
It’s nobody’s job to make us happy or keep us informed. We must take command of our own lives and begin moving in the direction WE want to go.
Also, now is the time to become well aware of the massive amounts of projection going on around us at all times. This group blaming that group and that group blaming this group, it’s never helpful.
Intend to see beyond the distractions and keep ourselves centered.
What’s really going on? Who’s really doing what? What clear and factual evidence do we have on the whole subject, not just someone’s opinion? (And at this point the NEWS is just a few folks opinion, not many real facts included.)
Have we ever watched someone instigate a fight between two other people? Could we see their motivation?
What did the instigator have to gain? What DOES an instigator have to gain?
It’s helpful to spend more time asking ourselves questions about our beliefs rather than just looking for more evidence that supports them. This is called conformation bias and there are thousands of algorithms that make sure we only see the information that supports our existing beliefs and ideas. This is critically important when we’re looking at negative beliefs that assume some one individual or a whole group of “like” people are bad.
We know what gaslighting is. We’ve had or watched another go through a love interest that was absolutely “crazy making”. Being the most attentive lover in one moment and lying and cheating with the next breath, all the while CONvincing the victim it’s their fault.
In my helping people move through difficult relationships, I have been given countless examples of this very behavior. “Can you believe they did that?” To which I’d respond, “Yes, I can.”
When we see it, it’s very clear, but when we’re in it, the story is much different.
Gaslighting is an insidious form of manipulation and psychological control. Victims of gaslighting are deliberately and systematically fed false information that leads them to question what they know to be true, often about themselves. They may end up doubting their memory, their perception, and even their sanity. Over time, a gaslighter’s manipulations can grow more complex and potent, making it increasingly difficult for the victim to see the truth.
Gaslighting has been a tool of totalitarianism for many years. Insisting on total devotion with no ability to question or dissent, even if the mandate is self destructive. Lies are repeated over and over until they are taken for truth. The way of communication is deceptive and coercive, leading us directly to the one CONclusion, that we aren’t allowed to investigate.
When we begin to notice that a very small group gains MORE money and MORE power while a large group loses freedom, we’re catching on to the game.
This feels like a great time for the reminder, we are a powerful, free will, individuals that can be, do, and have whatever we want.
We have the right to ask questions, make our own decisions and follow our own highest path. No matter what anyone else does or wants us to do. Virtue signalers and moral grandstanders can take a hike.
It may sometimes feel as if we are controlled by others, but the tools I share, will put our freedom firmlyinto our own capable hands.
But more importantly, learn here with me, about the game that will sets us free from all struggle and outside, unwanted control.
The Game is Conscious Creation and the way to win is by learning to navigate our energy and emotions. Let’s go!!
YOU Are in the Driver’s Seat
One of my sisters texted me the pic below, saying it was too good not to share, I agree wholeheartedly. Thank you, Dawnie! Tears flowed while my heart soared as I read this page. This is how I know truth.
Can you recognize what that feels like? Do it seem that Love is the Truth? Or does it seam fear is the Truth?
Whatever we expect, is what we’re creating. Don’t worry, everyone else is doing the same thing.
We can turn toward, accept and embrace LOVE in any and every moment.
Releasing the fear, drama and anger for understanding, lightening up and laughing about previous upsets, which will support a more just and equitable world and environment for everyone.
But, we have to decide we’re sick and tired of being mad and blaming others for our own emotions. We’ve all been there, it’s no big deal. Just don’t LIVE there for goodness sake!!!
Let’s take a deep breath and relax. Noticing the physical sensations in the body. Now read we’ll the following text and notice what our mind says about what we read.
From the book “Path of Empowerment – The Pleiadians with Barbara Marciniak”
Chapter – Healing on the Lines of Time
Health is wealth, and a well-fortified immune system is the key to good health, and the simple key to a strong immune system is happiness. The transformation of human consciousness calls for you to accept personal responsibility for your health and healing, for you are the one who is ultimately in charge of your body and your life.
As we mentioned, genuine feelings of love and appreciation for your body convey a positive message containing essential life-sustaining signals that result in excellent health. In contrast, engaging in feelings of doom and despair, loneliness, helplessness, denial, anger, resentment, jealousy, greed, and fear conveys a negative message that promotes discord within the physical function of the body. Negative attitudes bring about negative effects. Anger and hatred are the most damaging emotions because they close off the flow of life-force energy to the body. The ability to both give and receive love, in all its many shades of splendor, holds the true key to healing because it is the most life-sustaining and affirming form of emotional expression.
The decision to accept ultimate responsibility for creating your life experience will empower you toward attaining a state of mental clarity and physical vitality. For a few moments, quiet your mind, and after breathing deeply and rhythmically for a while, consider this important question: Is the world a dangerous, fear-ridden place or is it a great adventure filled with bountiful opportunities to awaken spiritual power and transcend established limitations?
What World do YOU Want to Live in?
We get to decide. It’s our choice. I know how to make it. Do you?
Are you making the choices you want to make or do you feel yourself going along just to get along?
You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do. (I know that got a few of you!) You CAN step out and into your true and glorious self, making your own best decisions and actually supporting a better world in doing so.
It’s my intention to share my knowledge and understanding to support you on your journey of living free and loving your life. It’s easier than you think and I’m here and committed to helping you make it happen.
We are vibrational beings living in a vibrational universe.
Fully awakening to this fact will serves us very well on our journey of Conscious Creation, by releasing our mind from Fear.
Which is why I teach what it means, and how to, “Move Energy” or in other words, release tension and anxiety from your body. I realize how powerfully important this skill is and everyone is absolutely capable of doing it, I show you how.
In the last post, I pointed out how fear has been used by many as a system of control and ask you to think about how this system presents itself in your own life.
Do you do use fear to get what you want? Do you notice all the ways it has been and IS being used to control people?
Our physical body is the most advanced form of measurement of consciousness in the universe. Our intuition is the purest form of truth and information available to us and learning this language is easier than one might think and more powerful than most can imagine.
The real and true science explains more precisely than ever before that the world is actually responding to us.
We are, in fact everything is, atoms vibrating, oscillating fields of energy… ultimately vibration.
Would one take a scalpel and cut vibration from vibration? Would we feed a pill to vibration? Or could we just raise the vibrational frequency to get a different result?
It seems pretty simple to me, but, it all depends on our level of consciousness. To what extent do we choose to participate in drama and struggle?
At first we will engage in this behavior and do, but then at some point, we just won’t, no matter what. That’s the process of evolving into a Conscious Creator and where ever we are on our journey is perfect. We all have to do what we have to do.
But, not understanding what has been proven over and over, or just not knowing about it because the powers that be prefer the old systems of control (FEAR), doesn’t makeit not so.
Gravity works whether we can wrap our minds around it or not. Same goes with energy and vibration.
The Scientific Method
The truth is the truth and facts are facts. The scientific method has been the same for a long time. Ask a question, do your research, form a hypothesis, test it with experiments (results must be able to be replicated by others), analyze the data and report the conclusions.
Science is about questioning and testing, and, questioning and testing, and, peer reviewed studies, by multiple peers and groups. So, if only one group can produce the results, that doesn’t hold up. But, if multiple people or teams have the same findings, we know this to be true.
IF a team is FUNDED by folks with a vested interest in a particular outcome, scrutinize those results and have another team NOT FUNDED by those interests also perform the exact experiments. This is truth and these are facts.
The Process of Conscious Creation
From the inner/understanding that “we live in a dynamic vibrational universe and our thoughts, attention, focus, and the physical sensations of our emotions (our divine instrument panel) are guiding us to and through our experiences and we have the free will to choose”…
What feels like it would be most helpful and would move us in the direction of what we want?
Focusing on fear, separation, doom and gloom, which absolutely creates more of that.
OR, recognizing that it’s all energy and it’s all moving. Free will allows us to make our own choice.
Can we begin to notice when we choose fear in our arguments and reasoning? Noticing is the first part of the process.
When someone (from friend to journalist) is telling a story that triggers a negative reaction, what would be our most beneficial response? React or reflect? Are we trying to create a better world or more of the same?
Noticing we have been baited with fear (over the top or worst case scenarios), and moving through what comes up for us (mentally, emotionally and physically) around that fear, we can shift the whole scenario.
By not “buying in” we’re taking our power back and taking big steps in shifting the Collective Conscious from it’s knee jerk fear based reactions.
And when that happens, the triggering situations will slow and eventually stop. Simple as that. It’s a learning curve, that just needs to be started. Join in! Let’s live in a fear free world.
On the other side of that, if we really are afraid of what we’re being told, move through what comes up around it (mentally, emotionally and physically), and can shift the whole scenario. Perhaps a traumatic childhood (or later) memory or experience keeps us mulling over the past and reliving painful stories. But, knowing what we’ve learned, we can soften and relax around anything to live joyfully free of fear and anxiety.
It’s a win win situation. And don’t listen to anyone that says otherwise. We have more control over our physical reality than some folks WANT us to know.
We are the commander of our own vessel. Others can only create in our reality to the extent we buy into or are influenced by their opinions or demands.
We can tell propaganda when it’s really shiny and wrapped up neatly by reporters being paid for their services. Conscious creators don’t just take someone else’s word it, doubly so if it’s negatively focused or feels bad. Dig deeper into what they are saying. Are they supporting feelings of fear or feelings of peace?
Fear and the promotion of fear is manipulation. Fear porn is an actual tactic, we can easily look and see any number of the films that have come out of Hollyweird in the last 20 years? But, don’t ask me, I stopped watching.
Awareness is Key.
I do my best to allow nature to be nature.
But, as I sit and enjoy being in my backyard and I watch the birds drinking, eating and hopping around, if I see my well fed and cared for neighbor’s cat lurking, ready to pounce on them, it would be pretty shitty of me to not sound an alarm.
On one hand, I could let nature take it’s course, but on the other hand if I have knowledge that can help people, then it would be my bad if I didn’t share that information. So, if you’re in a place to hear this, YAY for you. And ME!
Properly Dealing with Fear
Fear is information, just like the physical sensations you feel in your body. Information.
When we inner/understand this and begin seeing fear for what it is, we can make informed decisions about how to handle both the fear, and the perpetrators of that fear.
As a parent, if there is an emergency situation while you are with your children…. Do you freak out and tell them every negative scenario that could possibly happen? Do you remind them constantly they are in danger? Or do you, do your best to calm yourself and soothe them? Will things run more smoothly if they are calm or upset? Would there be any benefit at all to scaring or freaking out your own children? (We can explore our thoughts on parenting through fear with this question)
If you are a business owner or manager and there’s an emergency at work… Do you immediately run around telling your employees that shit is hitting the fan and they should bend over and kiss their asses goodbye? Would it be good for your business to make everyone afraid and nervous about what terrible thing could potentially happen? Would there be any benefit at all to scaring the crap out of your employees?
As a parent, could you sit with your children and tell them everything is going to be alright? Could you hug them and breathe with them, and tell them that whatever happened, things will work out and we’ll all get through it?
As a business owner, could you tell your employees that “things happen”, but we keep moving forward. Could you calm fears and ease hearts and assure them that whatever was happening, we’ll get through it and be better for the knowledge we’ve gained through this adversity?
Which scenario do you think will bring better results? Which group is going to have a better experience and will have gained valuable insight into how to handle difficult situations the next time they arise? If you said the calm and soothed and supported group, you’re right. Duh.
No one makes great decisions while in fear. Add confusion on top of that and you’ve got a recipe for disaster.
It’s easy to see which authority figures are truly interested in your best good, by how they approach you with “bad” information.
If people truly care about our highest good, they’ll say the situation may be serious, but they’ll also offer perspectives, information and solutions that are actually good for and supportive of us and our best health, and they won’t curtail any of our God given rights and freedoms. Wow, Thanks!!
How to Know if You’re Being Manipulated
If someone is scaring us, they are manipulating us. Period. Bottom line. End of Story.
Maybe they are unaware of this fact and are scared of something, and mistakenly think that if we’re afraid, we’ll be safe too. Bless them. This is NOT how to keep people safe.
But, what if someone were consciously misleading us to keep us wrapped in fear and anxiety, which actually really just diminishes our ability to discern and weakens our immune system?
Could that happen? Who would do such a thing? What would be the benefit of misleading large groups of people through fear and trauma based programming?
If we know we’re creating our reality, we know that acting out of fear only creates more to be afraid of.
Action taken from a vibration yields more of that vibration. So, we should take a moment to calm our body and mind to come to a place of greater clarity on the situation, whatever it is.
Fear creates more fear. Peace creates more peace. Decide what we want to experience more of and begin moving in that direction. Support is always available to those that want it.
Here’s to doing our part to truly support ourselves and our world in moving quickly through this tired, old, boring chapter of Fear and The Friends it Brings Along…. MORE FEAR.
Fear. We were raised with it and BY it. It’s a natural human emotion used for millennia by our own brains and outside forces to “keep us safe” or controlled. Our parents were worried for our safety so they scared us. Parents and teachers alike needing to control group behavior to suit immediate needs use fear. Need to get someone to clean their room? Threaten bodily harm.
Now, I know that not everyone was physically abused as a child, but I’d be willing to wager that more children have been indoctrinated into this fear and punishment paradigm than the one of loving acceptance where outbursts and bad behavior were met with, “Great job expressing yourself, Little Johnny!!”
We might have HEARD of someone that parented like that or maybe you saw it on an episode of King of the Hill, like I did… but I’ve never actually SEEN it in real life. Have you?
So why motivate with fear? Because it’s effective! And as parents, we’re exhausted, that’s why! It takes patience, thought and creativity to come up with supportive and truly helpful leadership tactics, specially on the fly.
So, we revert to what’s fast and easy… holler at them and threaten to withhold the ________ that’s causing the problems, that you won’t really withhold because that would cause even more of this type of outburst. OY.
Fear as A System of Control
But, what if we’re not talking about the slippery slope of parenting through fear, out of love?
What happens when we grow up and it’s no longer our parents trying to scare us to make us behave?
What if we’re talking about outside influences on ourselves and our children, not at all interested in safety and well being?
Who then might begin scaring us for reasons of control?
You know what I’m talking about. You’ve seen it and most likely felt it. Schools, society, religion, bosses, partners, friends, kids, government, big tech and the media.
Someone wants you to do something. (Your boss, spouse, child, co-worker, advertiser, government)
You don’t want to do it. (work more overtime, a long list of honey-do’s on your day off, take over the TPS reports, support their cause, wear a mask or get a vaccination)
They begin subtly or obviously scaring you with what could happen if you don’t do it. (You’ll lose your job, be in trouble with your spouse, be restricted from moving freely throughout society, OR ELSE… or else, what?!?)
Your boss, wanting you to work overtime, let’s you know other people are happy to do it, so you feel pressured to conform or lose the job. You’re afraid of being homeless.
Your spouse wants you to pull your weight around the house and you well know the repercussions of not helping out.
Your kid wants the damn candy/video games and while you KNOW it’s not good for them you give in, because you don’t have the energy for that fight.
Your government wants you to keep looking the other way while they mismanage YOUR money and launder it to people who didn’t earn it and don’t deserve it.
Your media wants you to buy into whatever they’re selling because THEY ARE SELLING IT.
I worked in radio sales for a very short time in my younger life and was floored during the sales training, in which I learned the key to selling stuff…. SCARE them. You want to motivate your audience through fear to get them to buy your product. The acronym is KISS… Keep it simple stupid. I knew in a moment, that wasn’t for me.
So, now that you’ve had some of my examples of how fear is used to “guide” or manipulate people, what are some of your own examples of how fear has worked in your life?
Were you parented through fear? What did they scare you into or out of? Did it have any long lasting effects?
Have you felt pressure to do things you didn’t want to do? What was the “CONsequence of not doing it?
Do/did you parent through fear? How does it work out?
Do you feel yourself being pressured into things out of a fear of what will happen if you don’t?
No YOU’RE Selfish
Why do some people need to control other’s? What’s the point? What’s wrong with them? Don’t they have their own lives to deal with?
Have you ever been told you’re selfish by someone because YOU didn’t do what THEY wanted you to do? Now THAT is selfish.
Once we wrap our minds around the idea of FREE WILL, meaning that you are free to make your own choices about what works and doesn’t work in your life, we can begin to see EVERYTHING as it truly is.
Clarity is a beautiful thing and seeing behind the motivation of others is the most powerful clarity you will ever gain.
When people are pressuring you… why?
For who’s benefit? Is it REALLY for you?
And always ask yourself, “Who makes money off of this deal?”
If it doesn’t make you happy, healthy OR make you money, screw it.
What’s the Point?
Understanding that each individual human (mind/body/spirit complex) came here to live, laugh, love and create on this planet at this time, has the right to choose their own experience.
When you can grasp that fear is the absence of love, and love is all there is, fear disappears.
Your unique perspective and desires are a benefit to all and you neglecting who you are to CONform to another’s ideals sells you short and doesn’t fulfill your highest calling.
You being happy, healthy and in love with life is the most powerful way for you to support those feelings in the rest of humanity.
You being fearful, unhappy, sad, guilty and ashamed, benefits only a hand full of folks that make money hand over fist from the suffering of others.
Understanding this level of manipulation releases your attachment to the very thing you’re afraid of.
When you can see that someone else benefits from your being twisted up in fear and anxiety it loosens the grip.
“HEY! Why in the world would someone want me to be upset all the time?”
Until Next Time
Begin to notice all of the subtle and very obvious ways people are trying to scare you into doing something. Some of these folks love you and think they’re protecting you. Some of them don’t care what’s good for you at all, they want you to do what’s good for them.
Join me next time while I discuss the Science of Conscious Creation and why fear is a self fulfilling prophecy.
As an organic gardener, I’ve heard, the best fertilizer for my garden is my shadow.
Through years of experience in life and in the garden, I know this to be true.
While I was inspecting my garden this morning, pulling weeds, pinching off the side shoots of my tomatoes, killing beetles on my cantaloupe flowers and spraying lemongrass essential oil in mosquito prone water traps, it once again occurred to me how powerful a teacher Mother Nature is.
As our shadow in our gardens suggests… we’re around, looking, inspecting and being wholly aware of what’s going on in there. If you catch a pest in the beginning, you can save yourself heartache and veggies. Otherwise, waiting around, not paying attention and ignoring the issue can spread the problem further throughout your garden.
This same principle stands true in our thoughts and minds. A Conscious Creator knows that negative thoughts and lower vibration emotions are to be acknowledged and felt through rather than ignored or worse, fueled. Can you imagine feeding the pests that were destroying your garden? What if you’re doing just that, unconsciously?
What Does it Mean to be a Conscious Creator?
I’ve been supporting small businesses by volunteering through my local Austin SCORE chapter since December of last year and one of my mentees ask me to explain the term, Conscious Creator. Thanks for that!
A Conscious Creator is someone who understands they are affecting their own reality with energy, thoughts, actions, and emotions, and so navigates life without giving power to (being upset by) outside circumstances. This doesn’t mean they don’t feel the physical sensations of that upset physically in the body, it just means they don’t react to situations because of those feelings. They are thoughtful and aware, giving themselves time to understand the situation and respond in the way that will bring them the best results.
A Conscious Creator recognizes that their outside physical circumstance is a direct reflection of their own inner turmoil, therefore the work is done internally mentally/emotionally and never blamed on another.
A Conscious Creator innerstands they have ALL THE POWER to make anything happen in their own life, no matter the outside circumstance.
A Conscious Creator realizes Fear as information, notices manipulation and doesn’t respond as if their life is in danger.
Conscious Creators in Action
As we’re the only ones always with ourselves, it serves us well to be a shadow to what’s going on in our own mind. Learning to control our emotions and take a few moments before making a decision is a worthwhile endeavor. I have countless examples of when my knee jerk reaction was wrong and even more examples of something I didn’t like in the beginning turning out to be something I very much enjoyed and appreciated.
In the coming days and weeks I’m going to be posting a series of blogs about fear. So much of what I see in the world today is people living with and by fear. Be Safe! Be Careful… being the mantra for all occasions. What if you knew there was nothing to be afraid of?
If a life FREE from FEAR and anxiety sounds like a dream, stick around. We’re going to explore the reasons for fear and how it’s used. We’ll also discuss the science of Conscious Creation and how to use the information fear offers to your benefit.
If you’re attached to the SELF-limiting lifestyle fear and anxiety offer you, enjoy! Free will is a beautiful thing and all experiences are available, AND educational. You do you.
But, if you’re tired of being afraid and ready to take command of your own life the next few blogs will offer you some new things to think about. Old programming can be interrupted by actually becoming aware of it and questioning it’s origins.
So, like your shadow in the garden… make sure of your shadow in the “garden” of your own life. Spend time in awareness of your own thoughts, “beliefs” and the physical sensations that accompany your emotions. These Conscious Creators guidance tools help clarify the “reason” for current experiences and keep the most important areas of focus, top of mind.
Here’s to becoming better Conscious Creators through the release of fear and anxiety. It’s all energy and it’s all moving!
If you know this already and just need support, I’m here for that too.
Get ready to relax and enjoy your life!
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Anyone else going through this right now? I know I’m not alone.
Last year a close member of my family became angry with me. Just the other day I received a box on my front door with a printed note, 2 books and the last gift I gave them, returned. Nice touch!
The note started with how much they loved me but that our relationship couldn’t stay the same if I continued my current behavior, though they haven’t seen or spoken to me in over a year. This is in reference to the way I handle myself, which is, by the way, in accordance with my own values and under/innerstanding of who I am, what I am and how I serve.
They then suggested I look up the term Spiritual Bypassing and research it, look through the book materials they left and be willing to accept new information.
Um, who do they think they are? I literally can’t remember a time I’ve insisted on any specific behavior from this person or anyone for that matter.
Is anyone else losing friends or family members because you aren’t behaving in the exact way they want you to? If you are, and feeling hurt, angry or upset, take a few deep breaths and allow yourself to relax. If you’re the one that did the cancelling, you’re free to do the same. Bless all of our hearts.
There is a very divisive movement going on in our country and world at this moment that isn’t intended to foster true and honest conversation. Nor is it for the benefit of either arguing party. Who benefits from all this fighting?
Remembering that we are creating our own reality is the most important thing to realize. Bless my heart. Bless my heart. Bless my heart. I forgive this situation and I forgive myself for creating it. Yes, please and thank you!
If others don’t understand that, it has NOTHING to do with you. Move through the energy of the lower vibrations and when it feels easy, send love and blessings to the individual in your own way, through prayer, meditation or some more obvious communication.
Anyone that tries to control your behavior is not focusing on their own lives and issues, therefore should NOT be relied upon for sound advice.
So, why in the world would I take that advice over my own knowing and intuition? I wouldn’t. EVER.
The extent that you buy into mentally and give a bunch of energy to anything, is the extent to which it can affect your reality. Ie… manifest, come true, or continue happening.
Understand you are matching the person or situation on a vibrational level, and that when YOU move YOUR energy around the situation, it WILL resolve. Either you’ll just feel better or the whole thing changes. And rest assured, when you FEEL better, everything changes. So quit trying to change the world by controlling outside circumstances. It’s like trying to rearrange what you see in the mirror. Everything that manifests in our physical reality is a direct reflection of our own internal struggle. Moving toward this knowing will forever set you free.
The Path of Conscious Creation
SO. This is what I do. ALL. THE. TIME… as a Conscious Creator.
I move MY energy around how I feel about things and that allows them to change in MY life. See what I did there?? “YOUR” or others thoughts and behavior do not factor into my decision making, or come into my focus. That’s on you or them. Period.
Everyone has this ability. Everyone has the free will to make their own choices. All races, ethnicities, genders have this free will ability. And not knowing that doesn’t make it NOT so. We are vibrational beings living in a vibrational universe.
Release yourself from “body identity” where you tend to live blaming and complaining about what another “body” did TO you. Expand your thinking. Expand your consciousness. The world is much larger and more complex and that’s a very cave man point of view.
Our world only stays the same because the way we are looking at it stays the same.
If you see what’s happening as an indicator that what you want is on the way, then what you want IS on the way.
If you look at what’s happening as an indicator that something terrible is happening, something terrible IS happening.
It’s as simple as that. You’re either Playing this game of Life or being played. Either might be relevant for YOUR life experience, so there really is nothing wrong with whatever your path is.
Trying to force others to conform to your path is YOUR problem, not theirs.
And while wisdom, maturity and life experience can help in understanding these truths, age is no indicator. There are plenty of young, wise folks and old fools alike. You can tell them by the way they talk and behave. Speaking negatively of others, holding grudges or behaving inappropriately towards another is an indicator of energy to move. But that goes for both sides of the equation, the perpetrator and the victim.
When you don’t know, you just focus on what’s easiest to focus on (the problem, fear, negativity) because that’s what we’re fed continuously through the news media, video games, music, movies /hollyweird and big tech.
It’s easy to be angry and self righteous, pointing blame outside of ourselves. That’s how our minds work when focusing on problems, until you understand that you are in control of your own mind and begin moving yourself in the direction of everyone’s health, joy and freedom.
We don’t deny peoples suffering or that it exists, we move through the energy we have around that suffering in order to shift the situation for everyone. No amount of physical action taken from a low vibration will bring the high vibration experience wanted. Move the energy and then take the action to achieve the largest impact.
Whichever side of this crap you’re on… Let it go. Don’t worry about it. Abraham says, “Worrying is using your imagination to create something you don’t want.” Everything WILL be alright. Because that’s what I am creating.
What about you? What are you creating? Are you facing these struggles? If you need help navigating this sticky situation to create the most positive outcome for all involved, I’m here to help.
If you’ve been through this and have wisdom or insight that helped you through, we’d love to hear it.
If you have cancelled someone and gotten over it, I’d love to hear what helped you move through it.
And to my precious family member that I love and adore more than any words could ever convey… I’ll not go against my own knowing for anyone, even you.
My heart is going out to you America. We’re all in this together.
This too shall pass. It’s all Energy and it’s all moving.
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