Easy Does It

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Let life be easy.
Let life be easy.

Does life run pretty smoothly or are you always asking yourself, “Why do I have to struggle and fight for everything I have!?”

I spent quite a few years of my own life asking that question. Along with… “Why can’t things be easier for me?”

Fortunately, asking myself those questions helped move me toward an easier life.

After reading Florence Scovel Shinn’s books in my early twenties, I knew what she said was true. We really are guiding our own lives with our words, thoughts and deeds.

It’s interesting, isn’t it, that we hold struggle in such high regard? Have you noticed?

If someone tells you something was easy for them do you immediately think, “well, so what?” or “Of course it was easy for you, everything is easy for you. Jerk” If it was easy, we don’t want or need to hear about it. Tell me what you struggled with and how much crap you had to take and dish-out and wrestle through to get somewhere and I’ll listen. And then I’ll engage you with my stories of struggle and hardship because that is what makes me worthy… my struggle.

Well, I’m here to share a little secret with you.

Life is supposed to be easy.

I know. I know. Some part of your body jumped up and said, “HEY!!! You’re wrong. No fair. I’m struggling and don’t know how not to so you better be struggling too.”

Have you noticed how some people don’t want to hear about or talk to happy people? They’d rather commiserate and complain with you than hear about your triumphs, particularly if your wins came easily without a heavy price. We all want to experience that ease but often feel angry or irritated that it’s out of our reach when someone else demonstrates it.

If you share too much of your easy and happy life you’ll notice some folks around you grumbling, perhaps rolling their eyes at you and mouthing smart ass comments. Bless them, though. Don’t be mad. They don’t even realize what they’re doing.

Bringing more awareness into our lives is the key to letting things be easier. Just notice when you get frustrated hearing about your friends recent engagement, raise or job opportunity.  Don’t be mad at them for having the success OR upset with yourself for feeling less than enthusiastic. Realize you’re just doing what a huge portion of society is doing and let it go. When you begin to be aware of these feelings and physical sensations you can allow them to shift and change the way your own life works.

The problem was this… We’ve been lead to believe that the glory is in the struggle. And for a while, because life was so much more difficult for our parents and grandparents, it was necessary to find and appreciate the glory in the struggle. That was all we knew and making the best of a bad situation was the best we could do.

But, times have changed and our understanding of how the world actually works has changed. We can no longer(though most do) view the world through Newton’s Principia (Mathematical Principles of Natural Philosophy, originally published in 1687).

Classic Newtonian physics posits that everything is deterministic, but quantum physics has proven that nothing is.

Everything is changing, always. And most importantly it’s changing (or not) due to your observation, thoughts and words.

So… Easy does it.

If you don’t understand all of this quantum physics no worries. Just think about the last time you got a new car and then saw them everywhere on the road. I once rented a vehicle that I was unfamiliar with (can’t even remember now what it was… small SUV, H something or other) and the moment I drove away from the car rental place, I saw them everywhere.

Read Pam Grout’s book E-Squared to learn more about how your thoughts create your reality.

When you recognize the truth in all of this and need guidance on how to allow your life to be what you’ve always wanted, I am here for you. Beside focusing on what you want and using your thoughts to move you closer to that, I teach you how to find and feel the energy in your body that allows life to shift quickly and easily.

Purchase a set of 3 sessions today for yourself or someone you know and love.

Find out today how easy life can be.

Much Love to you,


12 responses

  1. dmdobbins98

    I love how awesome you are at helping people make their lives easier! I know I still get benefits from working with you from over a year ago.


    1. Crystal Nuding

      Thanks so much, Michelle.
      It was an absolute pleasure working with you and I love seeing how you are out there helping the world be more magical! 🙂


  2. Pat

    Crystal, so true. Why do we think there’s glory in the struggle. I watch people struggling and then they take 3 weeks off for a nice vacation, but the other 49 weeks of their year is hell! I just read E Squared also! Love you!


    1. Crystal Nuding

      Haha. I know. Bless them. Things are changing though and people are starting to realize that money hasn’t made/can’t make them happy.
      The priority of society is beginning to change…It’s happening! 🙂
      Love you!


  3. Cathy Ulrich

    Like Pat, I agree that our culture seems to glorify the struggle. If there’s no struggle, someone must be cheating! When actually, it’s just that we believe we have to struggle. Great post, Crystal!


    1. Crystal Nuding

      Thanks Cathy! I’m feeling super optimistic about the way things are going. I can feel it happening.
      I’m excited for more and more people to get happy!
      Love you!


  4. ravitejatadimalla

    Well, that’s some new stuff I have come across recently. A good read 🙂


    1. Crystal Nuding

      Awesome! Thanks for stopping by. I’m happy to share these ideas with you. 🙂
      Have a great day!


  5. Alex

    I think its something we all ask ourselves from time to time and sometimes its quite obvious immediately why the “struggle” is there. Then there are the difficult times that just seem to happen for no hugely apparent reason and you spend a lot of time wondering “why” a kind of ,well this is my lot at the moment. Sometimes acceptance of the difficult time is easier to do than to take notice of advice or some small signs that actually jump out at you. You just don’t notice ,see them or worse still ignore them. I repeat this observation with delicate hindsight, a huge lesson to be learnt. There are many coping mechanisms to deal with situations, apply which you feel is best for you, you may have to try a few before you drag yourself out of the mire.
    When your free of the fight learn by it and try never to go down that path again


    1. Crystal Nuding

      Absolutely, Alex.
      Learning to live in your body and not in your head helps. You begin to recognize the physical sensations(of the emotions) as good information and direct your focus and action in ways that will be supportive and uplifting, rather than dwelling on what happened to cause the upset. Once you recognize you have control, none of those big things bother you anymore. You feel things coming and make the appropriate adjustments.

      Also, once you realize you’re actually creating the world around you, you stop being truly angry or freaked out by anything at all. You can be upset for a moment but move through it easily without a fuss. That’s when life gets really really good. 🙂
      Have a great day!


  6. Craig Kimbrough and Meditative Zone

    Hello Crystal. Great Post. This was my message yesterday. “It’s Gonna Be Easy!” something my teacher used to say. It was quite refreshing to run into the same message on your blog today. Peace and Blessings


    1. Crystal Nuding

      Yes! I so appreciate you and your message as well! We need more and more people knowing that life really can be easy. So many still struggle. But, no worries! We’re here. 🙂
      Thanks for being my partner in peace and ease!


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